The act of self-care is an art that many struggle to incorporate into their daily lives. But what is self-care, you ask? It is an intentional practice of nurturing the mind, body, and spirit regularly to achieve balance and well-being.

While self-care may sound beautiful and desirable, it can be challenging for many. Have you ever found yourself struggling with self-care? Here are some common reasons why it can be difficult:


For some, caring for others has been ingrained as a selfless act, leading to feelings of guilt when giving attention to oneself. It’s important to remember that self-care is not thoughtlessness towards others. In fact, it can demonstrate the importance of caring for oneself, which allows us to show up as happier and more fulfilled individuals when supporting and caring for others.

Pressures of Society

In today’s Western society, there is often a culture of competition and constant striving for success, leaving little emphasis on rest and rejuvenation. Setting boundaries with societal pressures is crucial for our well-being. It’s essential to recognize that taking care of ourselves is not selfish but necessary for our overall health and happiness.

Lack of Time

Finding time for self-care can be a real challenge. Often, our good intentions to prioritize self-care get pushed aside as the day progresses, leaving us feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. One approach that has helped me is reframing self-care as a priority rather than just another task to fit into my day. Starting the day with a self-care practice sets the tone for the rest of the day and ensures that my own needs are met.

Remember, your self-care is not a luxury but a birthright. It is essential for your well-being and allows you to show up as the best version of yourself in all areas of your life. Embrace the art of self-care and make it a non-negotiable part of your daily routine. You deserve it!