Let’s be real, we all talk to ourselves.
Some of the most powerful transformations in life begin with a single question. But here’s the truth: not all questions are created equal. In fact, some of the questions we repeat to ourselves keep us in cycles we say we want to break. They don’t bring us clarity, they quietly reinforce fear, insecurity, and self-doubt.
Let’s flip that.
🔄 The Power Shift Starts Here
If you’re on a healing journey or stepping into deeper leadership, here are three questions that may be quietly keeping you stuck and how to shift them into something that opens up your life.
❌ 1. “Why is this happening to me?”
Sounds harmless. However, it subtly positions you as the victim of your life, rather than the co-creator.
✅ Try this instead:
“What is this trying to teach me?”
That question opens the door to growth. It moves you out of pity and into power. And even if the situation isn’t your fault, the learning is still your gift.
❌ 2. “Do they like me?”
This one gives your power away fast. Because if they don’t like you… then what? Do you fold? Do you shrink?
✅ Try this instead:
“Do I like me?”
Now that’s a game-changer. Because when you like you, fully, deeply, and truthfully, the opinions of others start to matter a lot less. That’s when your real energy shows up.
❌ 3. “Am I good enough?”
This is the loop that never ends if you don’t interrupt it. It sounds like a question, but it’s actually a statement of doubt disguised as curiosity.
✅ Try this instead:
“Where did I learn to question my worth in the first place?”
That’s where the root is. And when you find the root, you can pull the whole weed out.
💡 Ask Better Questions, Get Better Answers
Your mind is powerful. What you ask, it answers.
So if you want new outcomes, new levels of peace, fulfillment, or leadership, start with new questions.
I share 23 life-opening questions I’ve asked myself in my latest YouTube video. These are the exact questions that helped me step into more confidence, clarity, and alignment, even after grief, divorce, burnout, and rebuilding.
🎥 Watch it here – 3 Questions That Opened My Life to Bigger and Better Experiences
You’re not behind. You’re not broken.
You just might be asking the wrong questions. Let’s change that.
